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Post by admin on Jun 26, 2004 0:32:18 GMT 8
another one .. ito yung siggy ko eh .. this is from claudine talaga .. based sa interview nya sa cosmopolitan philippines magazine (june issue) .. "I look at life this way .. that whatever people say about you, whatever they write about you, whatever they talk bad about you, they judge you - at the end of the day, what's important is that you know yourself." --------------------------------------- this just doesn't apply to public personalities/celebrities .. its human nature that people tend to please others .. its a fact of life that all of us wish that we could just be at peace with everyone .. who wouldn't want that right? but haven't you guys ever noticed that the more we try our best to be safe .. to not be in "tension" with others, the harder it seemed to be?! remember that not everybody thinks the same .. there would ALWAYS be people who would be there for you, and there would be those who would disagree with you or would just play the devil's advocate .. but what really matters is what you know about yourself .. another thought comes to mind .. isnt it that its impossible to truly love or give yourself to other people when you really don't know and take the time to get to know yourself?! you have to know yourself first before you expect others to know you .. but back to claudine's thought .. i know that a lot of us experience this .. that we feel so bad for not being understood at the way we wanted or intended to .. but remember that others can't love you if you dont start loving yourself .. and its impossible to have everybody .. we have our own minds, own decisions .. so whenever you are in conflict with others, dont let your life get too involved and confused on it .. rather, look into yourself .. if you're clear that you didn't do anything .. to hell with them diba? because at the end of the day, its you that you are with .. not them ;D
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chenee
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Post by chenee on Jun 26, 2004 10:23:47 GMT 8
naks nmn ate jenn! lalim! pero ganda!
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Post by admin on Jun 26, 2004 12:04:26 GMT 8
naks nmn ate jenn! lalim! pero ganda! thanks chenee! for appreciating .. ;D ito ang isang quote na talagang nagaapply sa buhay ko .. as in!
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jo479
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Post by jo479 on Jun 26, 2004 14:17:43 GMT 8
It is refreshing to the senses to find a site like this...that inspires the heart to pour out its contents in way that you don't insult or offend anyone.
Thanks Jennina.
God bless you, and the PCCF.
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Post by admin on Jun 26, 2004 14:41:53 GMT 8
Thanks Ate Jo! I really wanted this thread to have that effect .. because we'll never know when we can inspire .. someone might happen to drop by without us even knowing that we're able to help. There are too many confusions out there, and it won't hurt to allow yourself to breathe once in a while .. even just through writing (err.. should i say typing eh? )
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Post by admin on Jun 26, 2004 20:56:47 GMT 8
im watching buttercup right now .. the episode when meg asked for her adoption papers from her mom so she could find her biological parents .. she told her mom that she would do anything and everything just to find that someone who would really love her ..
i gave it some thought .. is it right to just give up your real self just to be loved? i mean, to be loved by the person we have always loved, is it necessary to change ourselves for them? to fit what they want and what they think is right? ano ang mas tama, magbago ka para mahalin ka ng taong mahal mo? or maghanap ka ng taong babagay sa kung anong klase ka at tutugma sa tao ring gusto nila? i know we cant relate this to our families because we cant choose them when we're born .. but in terms of our relationships - friendships or romantic ones .. which is correct?
give it some thought .. ill share mine tomorrow ;D
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Post by lily on Jun 27, 2004 0:36:48 GMT 8
"A true friend is not like the rain that pours and goes. It's more like the air, sometimes quiet but always there, constantly hanging around."
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Post by admin on Jun 27, 2004 1:23:57 GMT 8
"A true friend is not like the rain that pours and goes. It's more like the air, sometimes quiet but always there, constantly hanging around." ah so true ;D
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Post by claire513 on Jun 27, 2004 17:11:52 GMT 8
hi ms jennina haha di ako sanay tawag yan sayo..la lang.. nice quote! ...very true!!!!nyways thanks sa avatar ganda.. ;D
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gorgeous
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bonjour! 'jadore ma life' mabuhay.
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Post by gorgeous on Jun 27, 2004 21:21:28 GMT 8
for me jenn, we don't need to change for them its just simple ' be yourself ' we need true to ourselves not just because we need to prove it to them but to prove it to ourselves first.
love will come our way, we dont need to find it but to wait. if its meant to be that way everything will change and it will happen.
We do make a mistake but let us not blame it on being tao lamang. Let us not justify our mistakes by saying nobody's perfect but as a challenge to do better next time " god willing " . :)
there is no comparison when it comes to relationship, friendship or career there are diffirents levels and this is all impt part to ourlives it depends if how we handle this.
there is no pretensions needed but to be true to ourselves is most important.
have faith it will help us. i have learnt a lot reason why i became stronger one, nacks! hehehe..
regards to all. jen, pet mama claire and to all. :-* have a nice day.
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jo479
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Post by jo479 on Jun 30, 2004 4:10:18 GMT 8
"Without vision and dreams my people will perish.--saith the Lord God."
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gorgeous
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bonjour! 'jadore ma life' mabuhay.
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Post by gorgeous on Jun 30, 2004 4:37:22 GMT 8
nacks naman jo, nice to see yah here, how are u?
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Post by lily on Jun 30, 2004 16:56:26 GMT 8
"When we are reminded of our mistakes by a friend, we should thank him. In fact, a friend who gives advice is much better than a friend who flatters us"
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Post by admin on Jul 1, 2004 0:18:46 GMT 8
"When we are reminded of our mistakes by a friend, we should thank him. In fact, a friend who gives advice is much better than a friend who flatters us" ay totoo to .. as in! kasi hindi lahat ng tao icocorrect ka .. not everyone would take such risk .. so yung mga taong gagawin yun for you .. ibig sabihin mahal ka talaga nila kasi they're risking for your own sake ;D
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jo479
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Post by jo479 on Jul 1, 2004 13:05:45 GMT 8
Hi...everyone. Nice to be back. I just want to say "Hello, how are you doing? 'I hope one day, I'll see you in person.
God bless to all of you.
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