let's share problems here..

[stashy]

i consider all claud's fans as my friends so i think i'm comfortable enough to ask for advice...i have a bestfriend, actually an ex-bestfriend...he had been a constant companion and sure, someone that i wanted to be more than just frnds. when we finished high school, i went to bguio to study but we promised to stay friends, best friends i mean. we sent each other emails, snail mails and text each other almost every minute of the day...
i went here in bacolod to continue college since i was not really comfortable in baguio.you know being in strange place full of strangers excused me from going home. when i return, everyone in barkada were all anxious to see me, except him. i wondered why but called him on his cell anyway. unfortunately a close friend of ours said he changed his number....why on earth didn't he tell me???
i just heard from a source that his gf, his present gf now doesn't want him to hang out with us anymore..i'm planning to give him a piece of my mind...for having to give up our frndshp for five years.is it worth it?

[paulyn]

Hey! parang nangyari na yan sakin noon ah... iba nga lang ang setting.... sa Iloilo naman, hi!hi! well sa'min, medyo mas malala kasi yung girl is from a "rival
" group at that time and we have this feeling talaga that he was just being used just to get at us ( na nalaman nga niya later). Well in our case, We talked to him. not in a way na nanunumbat kami or galit. We just said how we felt as well as our fears for him, then he explained to us his situation, told us na important talaga yung girl for him. By the way his speech was going ,we knew na that he'll leave the group, at least for the meantime. Siyempre yung iba nagalit sumama ang loob, but most of us tried to understand him and we let him go, kasi iba naman talaga yung love for friendship and romantic love. most of the time talaga mas unselfish ang friendship love ( for us ha) lalo na kung yung partner/friend na ang pinag-uusapan. Ending, he really stayed away from the group for awhile, but then, when he got heartbroken, kami rin yung sumalo sa kanya, even those who was upset of his decision cannot keep from sympathizing with him, mas umiral yung pagkakaibigan namin kesa sa pride ng bawat isa. Basta what I learned in that incident is that, in friendship, kahit gaano pa katagal, there is always a limitation especially when your friend is already involve romantically with someone else. you expect talaga that something will change, you only hope that kahit may nagbago, the frienship will still be there just hybernating til the next barkada session.

[stash]

that's what hurts me most...having to give up the friendship...it hurts big time!!!

[sweet]

That's right. But you dont have to give up your friendship. Even though you dont talk or see that mch or anymore...that doesn't mean that your not friends anymore. You still are....in your hearts...if your friendship is a real one....no one and nothing can break it. Despite of distances and obstacles. Darating pa rin yung time na you will run to each other's arms... ;D ;D ;D